The generations on either side of me link me to my past and my future. My view of family history involves revealing the roots and the branches.

Throughout this blog you will find perspectives related to the doctrines of temple and family history work from revealed revelation given to living prophets of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

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Monday, May 16, 2016

Memory Jogger Mondays ... Goal Accomplished


A year ago I made a goal to write a "Memory Jogger" personal history tidbit every Monday on my blog for one year. I accomplished that goal at the end of last month! 

There were weeks that I had difficulty with the topic and other weeks that I found I was busy doing other life things and didn't get my blog updated that week. For the most part, the questions that I used were simple to answer.

Here are the questions I utilized for this past year:


Here are links to other resources that I plan to use someday in the future (maybe on this blog):

How have you been doing in recording your life history or keeping a journal?

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Monday, April 25, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - April 25


If you were to leave 5 different bits of advice for your future posterity, what would they be?

  • Love, Just Love Each Other
  • Spend Time Together
  • Be Obedient
  • Pray For One Another
  • Be Worthy To Always Be In The Temple
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Monday, April 18, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - April 18


When all is said and done, what do you want to be remembered for? What would you like your legacy to be? What are you doing now to make that happen?

I would like to be remembered as the "Family Gatherer".

I love finding cousins and putting families, long separated, together. I am a reunion organizer, family party planner, family history researcher and I serve my ancestors and relatives by providing them essential temple ordinances.

Sometimes, even just putting a family all together in FamilySearch Family Tree brings so much peace. There is comfort in knowing that they are all together in one central place.

I would hope that I will be remembered for making connections and bringing people together. 

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Sunday, April 17, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - April 11


If you could go back in time and do things over again, what would you change?

  • Try out for high school basketball.
  • Serve as a full-time LDS missionary.
  • Spend a semester studying in Jerusalem.
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Monday, April 4, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - April 4

Bryce Canyon National Park - June 2015
In how many places have you lived during your lifetime? Provide a brief description of each place you’ve lived, why you lived there, and why you moved.

Cedar City, Utah
I was born in Cedar City, Utah and I lived there in a little trailer park for the first year of my life. 

Iron County, Utah
My parents moved to the country (near Enoch, Utah) when I was a baby and I lived there through my young adult years. Our family only moved one more time; to the house next door.

Cedar City, Utah
I moved to "town" to attend college at Southern Utah State College (later Southern Utah University). I lived in many different apartments and sometimes back home while I went to school.

Elverta, California
After the first year of college, I took a break from school and lived in California with our family friends, the Heaps Family, and worked as a bank teller for Security Pacific for a few months. I then decided I wanted to go back home and go to school

Salt Lake City, Utah
After I graduated from college I got a full-time job working at the University of Utah in Salt Lake City. I lived for a few months with my Aunt Dar and Uncle Brent and later lived in 3 different apartments and had a half dozen roommates.

Logan, Utah
I moved to Logan to work at Utah State University and lived in a condo with two other girls (school teachers).

Bountiful, Utah
I got married and moved to Bountiful where Scott had a condo. He worked in Salt Lake City at KSL TV. I also worked in Salt Lake City for awhile at Deseret Book and later at the LDS Business College. We served as volunteers for the 2002 Winter Olympics while we lived in Bountiful.

Clearfield, Utah
We bought our first home in Clearfield in 2004 and have been here since. For six years I worked at Weber State in Ogden and how I'm focusing on caring for our home, family, and pursing other interests and hobbies.

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Sunday, April 3, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - March 28


What are some of the life lessons that you would like to pass on to your posterity?

Clean as you go.
A smile breaks down any barrier.
Improve yourself, don't compare yourself to others.
Prepare, plan, and move forward.
Stop, stand still and listen for the Holy Ghost
Breathe deeply.
Obedience brings blessings.
Plant seeds from which you will never harvest.
Don't spend time collecting things ... spend time gathering family.

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Monday, March 21, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - March 21

Matthew and Emma 2011, Our family's first 5K race
List five significant events or experiences in your life, and explain what effects they have had on you.

Marriage
I was 29 years old and Scott was 30 years old when we got married. I worried a lot in my younger adult years as to if or when I would marry. I met Scott online in July 2000. We were engaged the next month and married in November 2000. Best decision of my life!

Miscarriage
We lost our first child in 2002 at 13 weeks. It was a tough blow as we had been struggling to get pregnant. We had waited to tell our family and friends and lost the baby within the week of telling everyone. Good news travels fast ... bad news doesn't travel. Months later someone mentioned how good I looked for being so pregnant. Yeah ... just fat. Wanting a baby and losing a baby was so hard.

Infertility
Five more years of wanting and waiting for a baby was excruciating. Lots of different fertility treatments and doctor visits. An emotional roller coaster. We looked at in vitro and adoption. Everyone in our ward and families were praying for us. And then without fertility treatments we conceived and told everyone immediately (6 weeks). A miracle! Even our doctor said that it was because of prayer.

Birth of Emma
4 pounds and 14 ounces and healthy! Emma was born in 2008 and was the answer to much prayer. Everyone was praying for us for the entire pregnancy and there were multiple times that we almost lost her. We know prayer saved her and protected her. She was so alert, that in the hospital she would lift her newborn head and watch the nurses as they walked around the room. She is still so attentive. We love her! 

Birth of Matthew
8 pounds of pure boy! We thought that the road to having a second child would be as long as the first. We were surprised in 2010 when Matthew joined our family. He was big (compared to his sister) and healthy. Then when he was a few months old he got RSV and we lived at the hospital for 9 days. We know that through the power of God's Priesthood that he was healed. He is a healthy rambunctious boy. We love him!

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Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - March 14


What were some of the jobs you had throughout your life? 

Past:
Pulling weeds for my dad (stuffed them in old grain sacks and got 5 cents for each pound)
Babysitting
Mowing lawn and feeding chickens for my grandparents
Washing glass gallon bottles at the local dairy (3 mornings a week, rode bike 2 miles each day)
Avon Sales Representative (twice)
Customer Service - Fabric Shop
Wal-mart new store setup
Bank Teller - Security Pacific - Sacramento
Nutrition Coordinator Assistant - Head Start
Secretary - Southern Utah UniversitySchool Relations
Textbook Buyer - Follett Higher Education, Missouri Book Company, and Nebraska Book Company
Textbook Buyer - University of Utah
Curriculum Materials Manager/Consultant - Utah State University
Category Manager, Data Specialist - Deseret Book Company
Bookstore Manager/Consultant - LDSBC - moved the store to a new college location
Textbook Manager - Weber State University

Current:
Sewing Contractor - Simusuit 
Small Business Owner - Dennis' Horseshoes

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Memory Jogger Monday - March 7


What did you do for a career? Why did you choose that career?

Textbooks ... Textbook ... Textbooks

I grew up in the college store industry as my father was a college bookstore director when I was born. I helped him after school on many days. Some days I would help unload the textbooks from their shipping boxes and use a charcoal stamp to print the price in the inside cover. Other times I would help erase those stamps and prepare shipments to return to publishers.

One year when I was in college, my father and some of his staff had to be out of the store during the quarterly textbook sell back period. I was able to fill in for him for a few days. One of the national used textbook wholesale companies learned that I was helping buy back textbooks and offered me the opportunity to conduct buybacks for them at other colleges and universities. Throughout the remainder of my college years I conducted these buybacks in Utah, Idaho, Colorado, and California and I worked for three different wholesale companies.

After I graduated from Southern Utah University with a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration /Accounting and I was looking for a job, I was at the University of Utah helping with a textbook buyback and while there found out about a job in their textbook department. I applied and was interviewed and hired before the week was over.

At the University of Utah I worked as an Order Expediter and then as a Textbook Buyer. I worked there for two years and then went to Utah State University in Logan, Utah and worked there for three years as the Curriculum Materials Manager. I got married while working there and my husband lived in Bountiful and worked in Salt Lake City, so I left my job. Though I didn't really leave it, because for the next two years I continued to work as a Consultant for the bookstore in helping with business plans and resolving aging accounting issues.

I worked for a few years for Deseret Book Company in a few roles: Data Specialist and Category Manager. Then I had an opportunity to work for a computer company for a few months helping them rewrite their textbook ordering system documentation. I wanted to get back into the college store industry and had that opportunity when I was hired as the Bookstore Manager for LDS Business College. I worked for the college for two years and then my 1st child was born and I planned to quit. However, they didn't have my replacement so I kept working for nearly 6 more months. Then I worked as a Consultant again in helping my replacement for a few more months.

My plan was to stay home with my daughter and be a full-time mom. That idea didn't last very long when we were quickly running out of money trying to pay our regular bills. So, I applied at Weber State University and was offered the job of Textbook Manager. I worked there for six years and through the birth of our 2nd child. 

The stress of trying to run a university textbook department with all the pressures of excessively high textbook prices and demands and pressures from every angle at work, and lack of support and communication from my supervisors finally took a toll on me physically and mentally. I wanted to be a good wife and mother and my home life was suffering and at work I was exhausted and burned out. So I quit my job to focus on my family and some hobbies.

So, textbooks and the college store industry have been my "career" and that stage of my life is over. Even though I'm not at retirement age, I have "retired" from that line of work.

Now I'm enjoying doing family history, blogging and speaking, sewing, baking bread, and figuring out how to run a small business to help make ends meet. 

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Monday, February 29, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - February 29

Peacock Feather Card
What are some of your talents? How did you discover them? What have you done to cultivate and improve them? How have they affected your life?

Sewing - I started sewing as a young teen and over the years I found that I really enjoy it. When I was 16 I got my own sewing machine. I have made clothes for myself and others, blankets, pillows, bears, etc. I love that I can make something or fix something quickly.

Card Making - I love making greeting cards. I started making them as a young adult when my sister and I got free wallpaper sample books and we used the pages to make envelopes. I also made envelopes from an old map book, and old wall calendars. Then I started making cards to go in those envelopes. Now I love to use all kinds of papers and embellishments. I also love to "gift" cards to others. I just made 10 baby related thank you cards for a baby shower gift. It was so fun and I thought of my friend during the hours I made them.

Finding People - About 14 years ago I found out I had a gift/talent of finding people. Mostly I was finding distant cousins and tracking down their contact information. That turned to finding people that other people wanted found. A friend was looking for someone whom she hadn't seen in years. Using family history skills and some family history related documents, I made a few phones calls and within a few minutes found this lady's friend. The lady I found was in the process of moving at the time and I found her on one of her stops along the way. My friend was able to make contact within minutes. I've since helped other people find people they are looking for.

Family History - This goes along with "Finding People", but mostly dead people. I don't quit in my hunt for information about my family members. I have been doing family history for most of my life - started as a young teen - and have always been learning new techniques and processes. Making connections and learning about my ancestors and finding living cousins has been very rewarding.

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Monday, February 22, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - February 22

What advice would you pass on about raising children that you learned by raising your own children?

I'm still raising young children. Some of the things I'm learning and we are working on in our home are: 
More Patience
More Listening
More Playing
More Working and Doing Together

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Monday, February 15, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - February 15

What is your philosophy on money?

I wish I had more money! I wish I only earned interest and never paid it to anyone. I wish I had more money in savings. Do you see the common thread ... "I wish..."? Yep, I need to move past wishes to actual planning.

I really like this quote I found a few years ago:
"Financial stress is not caused by a lack of pay, but by not having a system that causes us to make wise decisions about the way we spend money."
So, that is what I'm going to be working on. Creating a plan and a system that works for me and my family.

What is your philosophy on money? Please share your thoughts and ideas in the comments below.

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Tuesday, February 9, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - February 8


What are some of the things you enjoy doing in your leisure time?

Soap Making
Greeting Card Making
Cross Stitching
Family History Research
Sewing
Reading
Playing Games
Gardening
Hiking
Walking
Sleeping

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Monday, February 1, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - February 1


What makes you stop and go, “Wow!”?

I love the beauty of nature! The sunrise! The sunset! The moon and stars. Waterfalls. Rock formations. Watching a seed sprout into a plant and then blossom into flowers. The cycle of all life!

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Monday, January 25, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - January 25

What scares you?

Sure, I'm scared of spiders and other creepy crawling things.

Though, what I'm most scared about is running out of time to do the things I want to do and need to do.

That being said, I seem to overwhelm myself with too many things to do. I have in the past said "yes" to many things that interest me and then to have them all heighten at the same time leaving me feeling extremely overwhelmed and scared of time running out.

Also, in the most overwhelming times, I want to just roll into a little ball and have all the pressures go away. My list gets too long and I can't prioritize (because it has all become a priority). And because I can't prioritize, I fall into the trap of procrastinating. Putting off something that should be done for something else that should be done until I can't figure out where to start to get anything done.

It is a scary cycle to be trapped in. And when I realize I trapped myself the feeling gets worse.

I'm in the middle of one of those cycles right now. And as I'm coming out of some of the pressures, this time is different. On the horizon are things I'm interested in and I haven't been committing myself to them. Which is really much different.

It feels so different that I have to convince myself daily that I don't need it all right now. Even though I'm interested and I want to be involved, I need more balance. I need more of the best of myself; not myself spread so thin in everything that interests me.

Hopefully I'm learning and this time will be different.

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Monday, January 18, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - January 18

Photo from LDS Media Library
If you could spend a day with any famous person in the world, who would it be, and what would you do during your day with him or her?

As I've thought about this question, I realized that I don't keep up on the "famous" people in today's society - that just isn't me. I thought about a lot of historical figures that lead great lives and either wrote great or were great thinkers or creators/inventors. I also thought I'd love to spend a day with any of my ancestors or just one more day with my recently deceased father.

For this post, I have chosen that I would love to spend a day with Jesus Christ. I would think that we would spend our day serving others. To learn from the Master how to serve others, by watching him in person would be amazing.

The more I've thought about this though, I've realized that I can learn right now from Him how to serve others more effectively and how to love more perfectly. I can spend my time with Him everyday by studying His word in the Holy Scriptures.

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Monday, January 11, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - January 11

Halley Comet - Photo courtesy of NASA and NSSDCA's Photo Gallery
List 20 interesting things you’ve experienced in your lifetime

These are not in any particular order. 
  1. Halley's Comet - As a young teen, I remember getting up really early in the morning to watch the comet from our front lawn (with no telescope).
  2. Ten half-marathons - I've completed all these races by walking! And about a third of them in pouring rain.
  3. Rode a cow - When I was really little we had a cow and my dad would take me on rides around the yard.
  4. RootsTech - Last year was my first time presenting at a national family history conference and my session was recorded for worldwide distribution.
  5. Walter's Wiggles in Zion National Park - This is an insane hike with steep switchbacks. I hiked this in the rain with some college friends.
  6. Waterfalls in Zion National Park - When in pouring rain, the sides of the canyon turn into amazing waterfalls. I've experienced this phenomenon a few times in my life.
  7. I have lived during 2 Millenniums, 2 Centuries, and so far 5 Decades
  8. 2002 Winter Olympics - I was a volunteer and issued Olympic credentials to all service providers (FBI, Secret Service, Fire, Police, etc).
  9. Fall of Berlin Wall - I watched in amazement as communist Germany fell apart.
  10. Infertility - Years of treatments and diagnosis.
  11. 2 Miracle Babies - Using NO fertility treatments I miraculously got pregnant with my daughter and a few years later miraculously got pregnant with my son. Lots of fasting and prayer!
  12. Temples - When I was born there were 13 operating temples. Now there are 149 - with one more coming in March (Provo, Utah)
  13. Temples - I received my own temple ordinances when I was 20 - and have since received hundreds if not thousands of ordinances for my own relatives.
  14. Temples - My 1st temple open house was in Chicago in 1985 (before I turned 14); though I lived in Utah and was closer to two other temples that were constructed during my 14 years.
  15. Temples - Next week my 8 year old daughter will visit her 5th temple open house; with at least four more coming in the next few years.
  16. Internet - Rapid growth in computer technology. I remember using a cassette tape to load programs into our Commodore 64 and I didn't have email until after I graduated from college.
  17. Telephones - From a 5-digit party line shared with our neighbor to amazing cell phone technology.
  18. Travel - Our family traveled through many of the US states when I was growing up. I only have 15 that I haven't been to.
  19. Space Travel - I haven't personally been to space, but I am fascinated by space travel and by the amazing images taken through telescopes. "Worlds without end".
  20. Understanding Heavenly Father's Will For Me - I had a powerful experience in 2014 where I knew Heavenly Father's will for me involved my participation in and teaching about family history and temple work. "For who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?"
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Monday, January 4, 2016

Memory Jogger Monday - January 4

From LDS Media Library

List 20 things or more that you think the world would be so much better off without.

  1. Gossip
  2. Apathy
  3. Laziness
  4. Idleness
  5. Terrorism
  6. Abortion
  7. Murder
  8. Negativity
  9. Hatred
  10. Jealousy
  11. Unforgiving
  12. Anger
  13. Ignorance
  14. Resentment
  15. Pride
  16. Infidelity
  17. Procrastination
  18. Greed
  19. Political Correctness
  20. Alcohol
  21. Tobacco
  22. Illicit Drugs
  23. Pornography
  24. Chronic Illness
  25. Cancer
  26. Disease

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Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Memory Jogger Monday - December 28 ... on a Wednesday

Archibald Family - December 2015
List 20 or more things about yourself.
  1. Family Historian
  2. FamilySearch Police (this is a joke between my cousin Julie and I)
  3. Reunion Organizer
  4. Blogger
  5. Speaker/Presenter
  6. Teacher
  7. Seamstress
  8. Gardener
  9. Canner ... Bottler ... Freezer
  10. Small Business Owner - http://www.dennishorseshoes.com/
  11. Ten (10) time half marathon finisher (I walk!) - until I broke my foot
  12. Retired Textbook Buyer and Seller
  13. Wife
  14. Mother of 2
  15. Aunt
  16. Sister
  17. Daughter
  18. Granddaughter ... great granddaughter ... great-great (you get the idea)
  19. Missionary
  20. Neighbor
  21. BSA Woodbadger
  22. List Maker
  23. Card Maker
  24. Cake Decorator
  25. Soap Maker
  26. Back Seat Driver
  27. Procrastinator ... why this Monday post is showing up on a Wednesday
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Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Memory Jogger Monday - December 21 ... on a Tuesday

Mary and Baby Jesus - Photo from LDS Media Library
List at least five people who you would categorize as truly great men or women. What did they do to be great?

The great men and women I've chosen to share about today are from the scriptures.

Eve and Adam
Eve chose to partake of the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil. She choose agency - the greatest gift our Heavenly Father has given to us. Adam chose to stay with Eve (and partook of the fruit) - knowing that he was choosing between two commandments that he had been given: 1) to stay with Eve and 2) to abstain from the fruit. He couldn't keep both of them after Eve had partaken of the fruit. Together they chose mortality (life and death). Adam was the first man and Eve was the mother of all living. He is the angel Michael and he helped create the earth.

Noah
Noah was obedient to God and built an ark in a time when the people were only doing evil. Again, this was about agency as the children didn't have a chance to discern between good and evil when all around them was evil. Noah plead with the people to repent and change their ways. The people didn't change and God flooded the earth and saved Noah and his family. He became the father of all living. Through him the earth was re-created. He is the angel Gabriel and he announced Jesus' birth.

Abraham
Abraham made covenants with God and was promised that through him all the nations of the earth would be blessed - that he indeed would be a father of many nations. He would have numerous posterity and through his posterity all the families of the earth would receive the blessings of salvation and exaltation. He received these promises when he didn't have any children; he wouldn't have Issac until he was 100 years old! He teaches me about patience and long suffering. He was willing to sacrifice his son (his promised posterity) to do the will of God. He teaches me to trust in Heavenly Father's will and time frame. Through the Abrahamic Covenant the blessings of the temple (salvation and exaltation) are offered to all mankind.

Mary
Mary the mother of Christ "kept all these things and pondered them in her heart". What did Mary know? What were her experiences? What heavenly teaching and training did she receive to be the mother of the Son of God? What did she think of the star, and the shepherds arrival? And a few years later when the wise men arrived; did she know they were coming, did she know who they were? From Mary I am learning how to keep spiritual things more sacred. She endured much and she loved much.

Jesus Christ
There would be no Christmas if there had been no Easter. Jesus would be just another child in Israel. Because He took upon himself the sins, sickness, unfairness, etc of all mankind and atoned for all our shortcomings and injustices we are free from spiritual death. Because He took upon himself physical death and led the way to immortality through resurrection, we are free from physical death. He is our Savior, our Redeemer. He preserves agency and promises immortality (salvation) and eternal life (exaltation). He was Jehovah the creator of the earth and we choose to become His as we take upon ourselves His name.

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